Well, I feel bad for all of the stories on the website, but this one takes the cake.  I dated Steve for a year before I found out about his secret life.  He had a one year old child that he ran away from.  He told me that he just wasnt ready to deal with this mistake that he had made.  Three months later after we lived together I found cocaine in our apartment.  Not only did he have a child but he had a drug problem.  Just be aware ladies…they will surprise you when you think that you know them inside and out.  I graduated college with a 3.8 and am very ambitious.  Don’t let these losers take over your life.  He ended up leaving me to go back to his child where he still battles with his "bad problems".  Don’t be afraid to let go and know that there will be someone out there that will treat you right.  Go for the nice guys!